Understand your relationship health in minutes.
IntimacyMetrics helps couples measure emotional connection, communication, physical intimacy, psychological safety and lifestyle stress, then turns the results into clear insights and practical actions.
Your Emotional Pillar
+3% from last week
Your Psychology Pillar
+3% from last week

I (IHI)
+3% from last week
Mark Peterson
Connected & Active
Find Your Path to Connections
Every relationship is unique. Choose what resonates with you most.
About Us
Every relationship has seasons, moments of closeness, distance, rediscovery, and change.
At IntimacyMetrics.com, we help couples and partners pause and reflect, offering a safe, non-judgmental space to understand what’s working, what’s been lost, and where deeper connection can grow. Our goal is simple: to help you and your partner see each other more clearly and reconnect with what truly matters.
Built on relationship science, our survey and insight engine translate your shared experiences into data-backed perspectives. With each response, our model compares your answers to your partners and thousands of others, uncovers key patterns, and generates a personalized Insight Report, complete with benchmarks, strengths, and tailored recommendations. It’s more than a score; it’s a thoughtful reflection grounded in emotional wellness, intimacy research, and behavioral insight.
So if you have ever wondered, “How are we really doing?”, this is your moment to find out.
Take the survey, explore your personalized report, and discover where your relationship stands and where it can grow.
Whether you are thriving or just surviving, IntimacyMetrics.com is here to help you take the next step, together.
Quick & Private
15-min survey, completely secure
Backed by Science
Research-based intimacy metrics that actually matter
Beautiful Report
Visual insights that are easy to understand and act on
Action Plans
Personalized steps designed to help you grow together
How It Works
Survey first. Insight second. Payment only when you are ready.
Take the Survey
Honest questions about your relationship — 10–15 minutes, no payment
Get Your First Insight
Your IHI score, pillar breakdown, and one clear next step
1 Month Free Premium
Full platform unlocked after your first report — AI Coach, journeys, acts
Grow Together
Daily check-ins, weekly actions, and optional partner insights
Your Relationship Dashboard
Get clear, actionable insights across five key intimacy dimensions
See where you stand in 5 areas of intimacy
Simple and easy pricing
No payment before your first insight. 100% private.
Free Summary
All the basic features to boost your relationship
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12-Week Growth Journey
1 month free after your first insight, then continue the full platform
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What Couples Are Saying
Real stories from real relationships
This helped us understand each other so much better. The insights were eye-opening and gave us a roadmap for growth!
James & Lisa
Together 8 years
We were stuck in a rut. This gave us practical steps to reconnect and feel close again. It's been transformative.
Sarah & Mike
Married 3 years
Finally, a tool that understands what matters in a relationship. Simple yet powerful. We check in every week now.
Rachel & David
Newlyweds
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