Understand your relationship health in minutes.

IntimacyMetrics helps couples measure emotional connection, communication, physical intimacy, psychological safety and lifestyle stress, then turns the results into clear insights and practical actions.

Your Emotional Pillar

75%

+3% from last week

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Your Psychology Pillar

82%

+3% from last week

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I (IHI)

+3% from last week

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You88%
Partner30%
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Find Your Path to Connections

Every relationship is unique. Choose what resonates with you most.

Singles

Singles

Reconnect when distant

Newly Weds

Newly Weds

Start marriage strong

Long Term Couples

Long Term Couples

Keep the spark alive

About Us

Every relationship has seasons, moments of closeness, distance, rediscovery, and change.

At IntimacyMetrics.com, we help couples and partners pause and reflect, offering a safe, non-judgmental space to understand what’s working, what’s been lost, and where deeper connection can grow. Our goal is simple: to help you and your partner see each other more clearly and reconnect with what truly matters.

Built on relationship science, our survey and insight engine translate your shared experiences into data-backed perspectives. With each response, our model compares your answers to your partners and thousands of others, uncovers key patterns, and generates a personalized Insight Report, complete with benchmarks, strengths, and tailored recommendations. It’s more than a score; it’s a thoughtful reflection grounded in emotional wellness, intimacy research, and behavioral insight.

So if you have ever wondered, “How are we really doing?”, this is your moment to find out.

Take the survey, explore your personalized report, and discover where your relationship stands and where it can grow.

Whether you are thriving or just surviving, IntimacyMetrics.com is here to help you take the next step, together.

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Quick & Private

15-min survey, completely secure

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Backed by Science

Research-based intimacy metrics that actually matter

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Beautiful Report

Visual insights that are easy to understand and act on

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Action Plans

Personalized steps designed to help you grow together

How It Works

Survey first. Insight second. Payment only when you are ready.

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Take the Survey

Honest questions about your relationship — 10–15 minutes, no payment

Get Your First Insight

Your IHI score, pillar breakdown, and one clear next step

1 Month Free Premium

Full platform unlocked after your first report — AI Coach, journeys, acts

Grow Together

Daily check-ins, weekly actions, and optional partner insights

Your Relationship Dashboard

Get clear, actionable insights across five key intimacy dimensions

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See where you stand in 5 areas of intimacy

Simple and easy pricing

No payment before your first insight. 100% private.

Free Summary

$0
/ month

All the basic features to boost your relationship

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Quick overview of your intimacy profile
Snapshot vs others in your age/duration group
No signup required

12-Week Growth Journey

/ 12 weeks

1 month free after your first insight, then continue the full platform

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Full analysis + personal insights
Key areas of strength and gaps
Delivered to email as downloadable PDF
Save & revisit anytime

What Couples Are Saying

Real stories from real relationships

This helped us understand each other so much better. The insights were eye-opening and gave us a roadmap for growth!

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James & Lisa

Together 8 years

We were stuck in a rut. This gave us practical steps to reconnect and feel close again. It's been transformative.

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Sarah & Mike

Married 3 years

Finally, a tool that understands what matters in a relationship. Simple yet powerful. We check in every week now.

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Rachel & David

Newlyweds

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